The first step to having rough sex is to decide how rough you want it to be

The first step to having rough sex is to decide how wild you want it to be.

The second step is to find a partner willing to go along with your plan. For some people, this might mean an open and honest conversation about what you're looking for, and for others, it might just mean asking someone if they'll do you a favor without giving any details.

If you're single, there are many ways you can get what you want without relying on another person. You can buy a wild vibrator and use it on yourself while fantasizing about whatever it is that gets you off—whether that's being tied up or getting slapped around a little bit. Or maybe even both!

If this doesn't sound like something that interests you, consider checking out an online dating site. There are plenty of people out there who are into the same things as you are and would be happy to help bring them into reality!